This is part VI of a new series titled effects of petting to men. In our previous articles we defined petting generally as the activity of kissing and touching somebody, especially in a sexual way. Soma zaidi.
We also said Petting affects guys differently from the way it does to girls. Today we are going to learn on one of the effects known as: Peer pressure motivate many teenage males. Soma zaidi.
Some men (mostly teenagers but may include the aged) use sex as a means of improving their position with their crowd. Order males may exert pressure, and when other urge then on, such guys are afraid not to take the dare. Often bets are wagered against the fellow chances of dating, making out or whatever with a girl. One of the strongest urges teenagers have is to conform to what the rest of the group is doing. So if all the others are engaging in sex the other fellows will also want to. Surprisingly this trait work to even the most shy man in the group. He feels the need to do like the other members do and prove his manhood to the members of the group.
Other men try to exploit women. Some tricky males ply at love as though it is a contest. They deliberately get girls into petting situations just to see how far they can go. In one study they investigated sexually experienced 20 years old men. On the averages these men had already enjoyed more than three girls each. 34% picked up women exclusively for sexual or exploitative purpose. They were using these women as a means to and end and reported having no feelings for the girls! Vioja? Ndiyo hali halisi ya mambo.
Important note:
Men who take advantage of the innocent girls always pose a challenge for any woman, however sophisticated she may be. One of the important points here is that a woman may be innocent, or unaware of the behaviour of a man. A woman as it is known she is not the decider. She depends on men to propose love or marriage. It might happen under these circumstances that a man may take more women and in some worst cases; HE MAY TAKE MEMBERS OF THE SAME OR RELATED GROUPS. Inaumiza sana . Hata hivyo pamoja na kuumiza unaachwa, anakwenda kwa mwingine, naye anaachwa na anakwenda kwa mwingine na habari inaendelea bila mwisho.
Take care and see you next time. (Itaendelea)
AIDS KILLS/ UKIMWI UNAUA
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