Why girls believe men? (Kwanini wanawake huwaamini wanaume?) Part II
This is part II. At maturity from the time a girl starts to show interest in men, she begins to think about that special someone who will hold her tightly and recognize the kind of love she has dreamed about.
In our previous article, we covered the philosophy of being carried away that was our first part of this new series. Today we are going to learn about inferiority complex.
Many studies world-wide indicate that inferiority complexes and sexual activity often go hand in hand. If a young woman feels terribly inadequate that she isn’t as attractive as other women, that she isn’t accepted by others, that she isn’t part of the “in” crowd, then she is on dangerous ground.
In most cases such a woman would give anything for attention, affection and friendship. One lady was identified to be unattractive and uninteresting by her group members and truly she felt inferior. That lady was quoted saying “if I can’t interest a fellow any other way, at least I can use my body to attract one!” This means that this kind of woman can easily accept an offer from almost any man (almost a man). Using a body to win a man is equally dangerous to the girl, man and the society in general.
Point to note:
The more a person accepts and respects himself or herself the less he or she needs to use sex as a mean to affection. Feelings of self worth allow a person to be patient and discriminating while progressing towards long range goals that includes marriage.
Kumbuka sana
……. hakuna mzazi awaye yeyote ile anaweza kumlinda mtoto wake wa kike asiweze kumkubalia Mbaba. Jukumu la kukubali au kukataa lipo mikoni mwake yeye mwenyewe.
Take care and see you next time. ( Itaendelea)
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