Marriage series: Phrases used by boys to win girls

Lines or phrases used by boys to win girls (Kamba za wavulana kupata wasichana)

Ndugu, I am back after being away from the City for some issues that forced me not to post series in the blog. I promise you makala motomoto as a compensation for the missed period.

The role of strengths of lines used by boys forcing girls into premature sexual activities is probably strong than most people realize. Here some of these lines (nicknamed as kamba!). Did you use them? Did any of you girls face these lines? There are many of you who faced different kambas, learn them:

The true love approach

One study revealed that the most common line used is “if you love me you will let me show my love to you”. Guys have used this since the beginning of the world. But if he does get what he wants, what proof will you have that he loves you when it is all over? More likely he used you to satisfy his own urgent need. And furthermore, if gets what he wants and does not leave you high and dry, you sill want have very much. Usually the guy who uses this line is a slow but steady operator who tends to hand in there till he gets what he wants. A good response to this line is “if you love me you will not ask”

Flattery approach

The most common line to this approach is “you have such a gorgeous body that I can hardly control myself” or “you are so beautiful” or “ you have such beautiful eyes.” Under question the guy who use this line reveal they use it because they can think of little else to say. In other world there so little attraction between the two of you that he has to flatter you about your physical appearance in order to get what he wants. Of course, it reinforces what an attractive girl wants to hear, and even the most unattractive girls feels flattered. In one study showed that sexually aroused males rated women in pictures as much more attractive as did those males who were not sexually aroused when viewing the same pictures. The greater the sexual need the better the female looks to a man.

These kambas are many so we will continue to bring them there for you to learn more

Point to note: Sote tumeumizwa sana na marafiki zetu, nasitumeumiza sana marafiki zetu. Usikubali tena kumuumiza unayempenda, wala kuumizwa na unayempenda! Usikubali.

Take care and see you next time. (itaendelea)