Marriage series: Phrases used by boys to win girls Part IV

Lines used by boys (Kamba za wavulana kupata wasichana) Part IV

Ndugu, as I promised yesterday, today we are going on with the commonly used phrases or philosophies which are professionally known as lines that are used by boys (men) to win girls in courtship relationships. It can be that you don’t know any of these; however, professionally these are the recognized ones. Read them.

Logical approach

Logical approach is one of the trickiest approaches. The common phrases include: “I thought we were going to get married.” “Who needs a slip of paper to legalize a love like ours?” “it is a good experience that will benefit our future together.” These phrases come on so gradually that it is often difficult to recognize. It occurs most often in long tern steady relationships with a basically nice guy whom you know is right for you.

Dhana hii inakuwa ya mtego sana maana unahakikishiwa ulinzi wote kuwa mambo yote yatakwenda vema. Ni dhana ya hatari sana kwa wasichana maana msichana akitajiwa KUOLEWA, kwa kawaida kunakuwa hakuna KUKATAA! Utaliwa.

A good response to this approach would be “in case we ever changed our minds about each other, I wouldn’t want you to feel obligated to me.” Then a woman should be prepared for a protest.

In a famous Solenson report it revealed that more than 33 percent of the sexually experienced girls believed when they first had sex that they would marry the fellow but few of them did! Unaona mambo hayo?. This suggests that two things were taking place that is either the lady was fooling herself or the guy wasn’t telling the truth. Ladies should be ware of the promised to be married. This approach is commonly used to win those difficult ladies. Ukiwa mgumu sana, unazungusha sana, kwa kawaida watakujia na njia hii ya mtego hivyo kuwa makini. Luka vihunzi kwepa mtego. Penda kwa hiari yako, chagua kwa wakati wako.

 

These kambas are many so we will continue to bring them there for you to learn more

Take care and see you next time. (itaendelea)