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Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Marriages series: Phrases used by men to win lady (Girls?)

Lines used by boys (Kamba za wavulana kupata wasichana) Part III
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Today we are going on with the commonly used phrases or philosophies which are professionally known as lines that are used by boys (men) to win girls in courtship relationships. It can be that you don’t know any of these; however, professionally these are the recognized ones. Read them.
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Negative sympathy approach
This is the opposite version of the sympathy approach. The common phrases under this category include: “you poor little girl, nobody has loved you as I do. You have had enough deal so far. Your people haven’t been happy. But I will show you real love, right now, in the back seat of the car!”!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Anytime where sympathy is a primary motive beware of these tricks.

This line posses a special danger for the young woman who comes from an unhappy home or who has never had a close relationship with her mother or father. This person is most vulnerable when she is feeling sorry for herself. You want a man to understand you, of course, but make sure he understands more about life than this.
stock photo : Two young smiling people with thumbs-up gesture isolated on white

The big-shot approach
You know the big shots isn’t it? They have their own approaches to approaching young ladies. The common phrases include: “Girls are standing in the line for block to date me. You are very lucky person, you know”. The big-shot probably doesn’t verbalize, but you get the idea through his words and actions. Wakati mwingine hawahitaji kuongea, zinaongea sifa zao, yanaongea magari yao, simu zao, pesa zao na hata majina yao! This guy is probably good looking, athletic, intelligent, personable and popular with others. He has the ability to make you feel super special. A girl will be specially vulnerable to this type of a man if you are very young or inexperienced or if you have a good case of inferiority complex. Hapa unakuwa umekwisha maana utawaona hao wababa kama wa kiwango cha juu sana kiasi kwamba kuwakatalia inakuwa ni DHAMBI kwako!
 stock photo : Portrait of a smiling young fitness couple or personal trainers

These kambas are many so we will continue to bring them there for you to learn more

Take care and see you next time. (itaendelea)

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