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Friday, November 26, 2010

PROBLEMS OF TEENAGE MARRIAGES

Today let us look on this article on teenage marriages and associated problems. This is a borrowed article from a different however you will still enjoy it. Read.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It is the name of trust, love, faith and support. But teenagers do not agree with these, so them marriage life go for divorced at last. Marital problems may occur when couples are in conflict, have trouble communicating, or don't trust each other. According to the research teens are making life-changing decisions with the wrong portion of their brains.

Teenage marriage has become a challenge in the modern era. There are so many things which disturbs married teens life-

1.Disagreements over money: - both girl and boy, they don't agree with the same.
2.Laziness: - this is the second thing; if boy or girl is lazier they will not live together whole life.
3.Disagreements over children: - if one loves to have children ant other says no.
4.Physical or mental abuse: - this is the common problem in couples these days.

Marriage takes the income, time and resources of two loving partner. Cohabiting relationships are generally less stable and secure than marriage that welfare is time-limited, and that non-custodial fathers will be held accountable for financial support. This is not to suggest that you wait about marriage until every possible financial problem has been completely solved, but rather simply suggests that you do not close your eyes to the real situation whatever it may be.

First, the problem of adequate financial support is obvious. Although money does not buy happiness, it is true that a tight financial situation can create tensions, which can undermine an otherwise happy relationship. While some financial problems are to be expected in almost any new marriage, it is important to take time to think sensibly, so that such problems will not destroy what could otherwise be a beautiful relationship, if not undertaken prematurely.

The second problem, that comes in teenage marriage is an unplanned pregnancy, and rightly so. Because the teen mother body do not become improve and do not become ready for pregnancy so it may be a danger for mother. The teenage need to bear the responsibility of the child, even though they are not settled in their own lives.

Another problem, which faced by teenagers at early marriage, is the problem of personal maturity. While immature and irresponsible actions may sometimes seem funny before marriage, they will become serious if the groom and bride are mature and understand the meaning of marriage.

Teen's marriage, though possessing certain inherent dangers, is widely practiced in all over the world.

3 comments:

  1. Ha! Yeah, we can vouch for all this!! ;-) -Married at age, 16 yrs. ago!! It's been very, very, very tough. We've came close to divorce a few times, though we do disagree w/ it. God has been full of grace & mercy. Our hard times have made US stronger though.... and all the more we love one another, committed, unconditional love... sticking through the hard stuff made it worth still being together, for things get better, SO better after each rough spell. -Nice reward.

    But yes! We agree!! Teenage marriage NOT a wise idea!!

    (This is actually Katie. "Nicole" is my daughter's sign in name.) ;-)

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  2. The stability of a couple is a priority to think before planning to have a wedding.Marriage isn't just a game, it must be a life time commitment.

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  3. True love waits...love never rush everything because when you truly love it will stay in your heart forever:-)You should not have the reason why you want to have an early marriage is the enormous love you felt with this guy or girl, you should think first those consequences that you will face after marrying at a very young age.

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